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discrete - constituting a separate entity : individually distinct, or, consisting of distinct or unconnected elements.

discreet - prudent; especially : capable of preserving prudent silence: unobtrusive: unnoticeable.

If you are looking to keep your activities on the downlow, you are not looking for a discrete relationship. You are looking for a discreet relationship. Get it right!

I'm sure people can have discrete relationships, but there wouldn't necessarily be any element of discretion about them. In fact, juggling several discrete relationships would probably be about as discreet as a roomful of Lucille Ball impersonators.